Your Self Love Letter

You deserve something GOOD

I thought I would write you a love letter just to remind you who you are and what you deserve..

You were born as an original. Not meant to be compared to Beyonce, Rihanna, your friends, your Instagram, or your family. You were born to be different, to stand out among those who surround you. You weren’t meant to fit in with everybody, so don’t worry if you feel like people just don’t get you. They aren’t always supposed to.

You won’t get everything right the first time. So stop trying to be perfect. It will all work out. Just do your best. Stop worrying about what other people think of you. They don’t have a Heaven or hell to put you in. Be YOU. Again, you aren’t a copy – but an original. You won’t be able to please everybody. Many times people want you to do what works in their favor as well, but many times it won’t.

Don’t be afraid of following your dreams. You have big ideas. Some you can’t even talk to with anyone else because you’re afraid they won’t understand. Talk to God about it. He’ll allow you to release it in due time. Don’t rush it. You get ahead of yourself because you get so excited, but remember, HE gave it to you for the right season. Every time an idea pops into your head is not the right season. Understand that you won’t be able to share it with everyone you know. People won’t like you for it. People may even walk away from you because they think it should have been them that God gave the idea to. People won’t show up after telling you they would come and support. Don’t trip, just stay prayed up.

You deserve something good. Your friendships shouldn’t be constantly filled with drama and draining. They should be uplifting and breed happiness. You’ll have ups and downs and even fall out of contact – but nothing can destroy true friendship. If your circle isn’t making you better, you’re probably in the wrong circle.

Your relationship shouldn’t drain you. You deserve to be happy. You deserve someone who treats you like a queen and not someone your constantly concerned if they’re cheating or lying etc. You are worth the wait so any guy who questions that, doesn’t deserve you. You need to learn to compromise. You won’t always get your way, but that’s the beauty of give and take. Be OPEN. Every guy won’t come complete with everything on your list of standards. Be willing to get to know them. “Walk like a queen and your king will come”

Put God first! He’ll guide you. He’ll never leave you. He’ll be there on the nights you can’t think of anything else to do but cry into your pillow. He’ll be there when lonely nights hit. He’ll be there when you accomplish that goal, don’t forget to thank Him. He’ll be there when your life is going up and you can’t be happier. When you mess up, don’t run from Him, run to Him. He’s your safe haven. Love Him over everything.

Your beautiful and I love you. 


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